Oh boy in been a busy few weeks. Was supposed to start school and have had no time to buy my books never mind read them. But it's been good. working! Flowing, manifesting, and spinning new wheels....literally. Apartment hunting, casting, and auditioning last week, and started housesitting in magical Malibu, where my major transformational year last started. Interesting full circle to start the next growth spurt!
Funny, I supposed now that I have a pretty much free day I should be buying those books and studying, but instead I have had a producer meeting for a possible job, finally did some 80s dancing downstairs to begin my choreography job, and have done some window shopping on the dating sites that I haven't fully committed to!
So the good thing I have found about these sites are the personality assessments and relationship needs questionaires....It's pretty valuable info and I have to say a bit eye opening. Cause most of us I don't think even know what we want or need, we are so busy just trying to fill this unexplainable void or scared to death of feeling that void and run. Well the more I have come into myself, the more I have realized I don't need a man, but it would just be nice to have one....and not just anyone, the right one, and there might be a few almost right one's along the way and that is okay too, each one gets me a little closer.
My faith has recently been restored in finding love with a friend who found the love of her life by chance online, and my dinner with the happily married british men...who actually missed their wives...that's nice!
So according to plenty of fish her are my bottom line explanations on my needs and desires:
INTERDEPENDENCE
Bottom line: you need someone who reciprocates a strong feeling of attachment to a partner but who also respects and copes well with the fact that you benefit from a reasonable level of physical and psychological space at times.
INTIMACY
Bottom line: you need someone who believes and acts on the belief that the intimacy of a relationship is sacred.
SELF-EFFICIENCY:
Bottom line: you need a partner who is energetic, enthusiastic and has high self-efficacy like you and will support or even participate in your personal and professional interests that feed your sense of identity and accomplishment.
RELATIONSHIP READINESS:
Bottom line: you need someone who wants a relationship, rather than needs one to feel personally fulfilled.
COMMUNICATION:
Bottom line: you need someone who will not put up emotional barriers when you seek to understand his/her thoughts and feelings, but rather will communicate with you intimately and candidly.
CONFLICT RESOLUTION:
Bottom line: you need someone who will join you in taking time to find a complete and genuine resolution to issues as opposed to avoiding conflict by settling for quick, temporary agreements.
SEXUALITY:
Bottom line: you need someone who regards sex as a meaningful bond between people in love and who appreciates being the center of attention in the bedroom.
ATTITUDES TOWARDS LOVE:
Bottom line: you need someone who believes that the best kind of love grows out of a strong friendship. You scored as someone who may be best described as "a realist with a touch of hopeless romantic.”
PREFERRED EXPRESSIONS OF AFFECTION:
Bottom line: You need someone who can express affection openly and directly – such as spontaneous compliments, daily “I love you’s,” occasional notes for you to find and recognition of your achievements. This does not necessarily mean that you neither like nor need Actions. Rather, it suggests that you need someone who feels that simple or grand acts of kindness are no substitutes for other expressions of affection – such as telling you how they feel, treating you like a partner, touching you lovingly, spending time with you or remembering special occasions with a thoughtful gift.
Hmmm...So if you see him out there send him my way! Other than that, I'll be flowing with the wind, following my heart, letting go and letting god and goddess guide me, that seems to be when everything falls into place.
Smile through the chaos, it's all perfect!
Love, me
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